Hello! I’m sure you remember a scene when you or one of your friends were kids and you were trying to take on a challenge for the first time, with the famous phrase “you first”. It’s a situation many people have experienced, and in the end, the first person encourages the other to take the plunge. He sets an example and reassures the others. Initiative is another important aspect of growth. If we go back to this verse: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”, we see that we have to initiate things, to take the first step. Another passage tells us “give and you shall receive” or “you shall reap what you sow”. When we build relationships, the emotional security of each person is crucial to healthy relationships. Relationships are often broken by an emotional rift, and nurtured relationships are often a barometer of emotional and spiritual maturity. God looks to the heart; in relationships, motives are important. Mature, selfless love is not self-interested. We can’t hope to develop exponential growth by trying to use people. For that, we must set an example by acting for others as we would have them do for us, and rely on God for the rest. To develop growth, our relationships must be carried towards each other. We need to unleash the potential of every relationship. Relational potential is the liberation of the best in each person. There is no competition in the Kingdom of God; each person has his or her own role, function, calling and vision that fits into God’s vision for His Kingdom. Growing according to God’s plan means liberating others in their vision, their calling, helping them to reveal the best in themselves. How do we do this? By leading by example! It’s not always easy to lead by example, it often takes time, but we have to be ready to love others by moving beyond differences, cultures, circumstances… beyond our own limitations! Dare to take the first step towards others! Growth is relational: your initiatives will lead you to go beyond your limits, and your relationships will turn them into levers for your progress. Even if the most difficult thing about relationships is that they often confront us with our weaknesses. The best way to change is to face reality! Every initiative and every first step in obedience will take you to higher levels. Next time we’ll look at how to strategically develop our growth from our weaknesses, a focus that will help you change your perspective on weaknesses and how to use them as a springboard. In our next Newsletter, we’ll look together at the relationship circle essential to leadership.
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Joachim Fontaine
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